Once upon a time, there was an American man who wanted to marry a Chinese woman. He truly felt that his ideal woman was a Chinese lady, and so he decided to join a Chinese dating site. He had high hopes; he had heard countless stories of successful matches between a foreign man and a Chinese woman through matchmaking sites.
He found a truly magical matchmaking site, Asianbeauties.com. It was everything he ever dreamed of. In fact, the Chinese women on the site were even more beautiful than he could have ever imagined. He could not believe that such stunning ladies were just right there, just waiting for a foreign man to sweep them off their feet! It was too good to be true!
What he did not realize at the time was that the magical land was the territory of dishonest characters who conspire to hook him and other men like him with beautiful bait and then rob them of their money.
He had to pay a price every time he wanted to send a message to any lady and pay again to receive their reply. He also had to pay to view each photograph they sent.
But he did not mind; his heart was set on marrying a Chinese woman, and there were so many of them to choose from on this virtual fantasy land, and each one was more beautiful than the next. Communicating with these ladies was worth every cent he paid. Sooner or later, he will meet the Chinese woman of his dreams and he will woo her and take her away and marry her, and they will live happily ever after.
Asianbeauties.com, where exquisite damsels roamed, opened so many tempting doors for him left and right! He was receiving hundreds of messages from so many dazzling women! He narrowed down his choices to a few; he could not afford to read and respond to them all. He paid to exchange messages with them and to see photographs of them. Then he felt he it was time to talk to them and spend time with them through the online portals offered by the site.
Again, he was asked to pay more money for each minute that he wanted to spend with them online. But all the women sounded so eager and happy to be communicating with him! If he really wanted to find the love of his life, then he should be willing to pay the price.
Then he felt it was time to finally meet one or a few of them in person. First, he tried to send them his personal contact information, but he found out that this was not allowed by the people that watched over the land. When he told them that he wanted to visit them, some of them said they were unable to and they should just continue communicating online; a few others replied that it could be arranged but he had to pay for the services of a translator who would be accompanying them the entire time.
A few months passed and he realized that he was not getting nearer his goal of meeting the woman of his dreams. There were so many of them, freely walking the land of Asianbeauties.com, so tempting, but all he could have were glimpses of their images and exchanges of messages. He made attempts to move some “relationships” to the next level, but he only met excuses from the ladies or road blocks from the powers that be.
And then one day, he received a message from a lovely lady who said she also lived in the same region and she wanted to meet him. He was so thrilled! He paid to send her a reply. He waited and waited but he suddenly stopped receiving messages from the site. He discovered that his membership was deleted and he made contact with one of the caretakers of the land of Asianbeauties.
He was told that he needed to prove his identity before they would grant him access again. He had to send them copies of his personal information. He got suspicious and conferred with his financial advisor. He was advised that complying with the request would not be wise; he could be defrauded.
Alas! He finally came to the realization that everything was a well-orchestrated deception!
But he has not given up on his quest. He still believes in a “Happy ever after.” He has learned his lesson and found another matchmaking site with a very good reputation! And there, he has shared his story with all the other men who are also looking for love and their ideal Chinese woman, so they can learn the truth about the fool’s paradise that lured him and robbed him.
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